Saying No Politely
Use these phrases to decline invitations or offers politely while suggesting alternative plans.
Key Phrases
Takk for invitasjonen, men det passer ikke i dag.
Thanks for the invitation, but it does not suit me today.
💡 A polite and common way to decline any invitation.
Jeg vil gjerne, men jeg må arbeide i kveld.
I would like to, but I have to work tonight.
💡 Shows that you want to participate but cannot.
Det høres koselig ut, men jeg har andre planer.
That sounds cozy, but I have other plans.
💡 A friendly way to refuse using the word 'koselig'.
Jeg er dessverre veldig sliten etter arbeidet i dag.
I am unfortunately very tired after work today.
💡 A honest and polite reason to decline a social event.
Jeg må takke nei til invitasjonen din denne gangen.
I have to decline your invitation this time.
💡 A slightly formal but polite refusal.
Det var leit, men jeg kan ikke bli med.
That was a pity, but I cannot join.
💡 Expresses regret about not being able to join.
Jeg kan ikke komme på festen din på lørdag.
I cannot come to your party on Saturday.
💡 A direct refusal for a specific event.
Takk for tilbudet, men jeg skal reise på ferie.
Thanks for the offer, but I am going on vacation.
💡 Use this when travel plans prevent you from accepting.
Kan vi ta en kaffe en annen dag i stedet?
Can we have a coffee another day instead?
💡 Suggests a specific alternative to show interest.
Kanskje vi skal spise middag en annen dag?
Maybe we shall eat dinner another day?
💡 Proposes a future activity using the future tense.