Saying No Politely
Use these phrases to politely decline offers or invitations, provide a simple reason, and suggest alternative plans.
Key Phrases
Nei takk, det går bra.
casualNo thanks, I'm good.
A very common and relaxed way to decline something.
Ellers takk.
neutralThanks anyway.
Short and polite. Often used when someone offers help or a drink.
Jeg kan ikke i kveld.
casualI can't tonight.
Dessverre, jeg kan ikke komme.
neutralUnfortunately, I can't come.
Using 'dessverre' softens the refusal significantly.
Det passer ikke i dag.
casualIt is not a good time today.
Literally translates to 'it does not suit today'.
Det passer dessverre ikke så bra.
politeUnfortunately, it is not very convenient.
Jeg må jobbe.
casualI have to work.
Jeg har allerede andre planer.
neutralI already have other plans.
Hva med i morgen?
casualWhat about tomorrow?
Kanskje en annen gang?
neutralMaybe another time?